I had the opportunity to hear Andrew Keen and Don Tapscott debate the topic of Andrew's new book,
asserting that "today’s Social Revolution Is Dividing, Diminishing and Disorienting Us". The session was moderated by Matt Galloway, but he didn't really have to work too hard as Andrew and Don were keen to jump on each other's statements.
The underlying premise of the book is that people are sharing too much through social media and this will have an impact on relationships and privacy. I think this is based on the constructs of an older generation, of which I am part, where we were brought up to believe that privacy was sacrosanct.
It was proposed that one of the biggest risks in the age of the internet is that there is no hiding from your mistakes. In the past, if you did something stupid it would be forgotten in time. Now, with YouTube and Facebook, your indiscretions can be kept current forever. I would pose that a generation raised with this lack of forgetfulness may become more tolerant of indiscretions because we will all have them recorded somewhere. Think about the past where someone was caught having an affair and was pilloried, and in some cases by people who had similar experiences but had never been discovered.
Another comment was that all this disclosure will have an impact on relationships as relationships are built on getting to know people and, if all the information is out there, then how do you form relationships. Since relationships are built on shared perspectives and values, not the facts and observations or information about people you might find on the internet, I don't see how this relates to relationship building at all.
Andrew suggested that there is too much sharing of personal info on social networking and that the internet will have to adjust and evolve some privacy parameters. Since these things tend to evolve without a specific guiding hand I suggest that the evolution to acceptance of lesser privacy is instead going to continue and that people will become less concerned with privacy. As such, the lack of privacy or the revealing of some secret or transgression will lose the power to destroy relationships, careers or reputations the way that having an affair or a child out of wedlock may have tainted one in the past. Given that we all make mistakes, and that the only thing that differentiated between those that were pilloried in the past and those that were not, was whether they were unfortunate enough to get caught, then the higher chance of being "outed" in the future may lead to greater tolerance overall of common human failings.
As privacy of personal information becomes less important, it will cease to provide others with a tool to be used against them. I hope this greater openness will lead to more tolerance for the mistakes we all make, but in the past were not immortalized and so could be forgotten.